I’ve lived in Oklahoma my entire life, and let me tell you—I’ve heard it all.

"Isn’t it just tornadoes and tumbleweeds?"

"Isn’t it super flat and boring?"

"Wait, you guys have Whole Foods now?"

Yep, we’ve been underestimated for a long time. But if you're thinking about moving to Oklahoma, I'm here to give you the real story—from someone who’s lived it every day. Because the truth is, there’s a reason so many families, retirees, and remote workers are making the move here. And it's not just because it's affordable (though that's definitely a perk).

Here’s what people often get wrong—and what you’ll actually come to love about life in Oklahoma.

1. We’re Not Just Friendly—We’re Genuinely Connected

People always say, “Oh, everyone’s so friendly there,” and it’s true—but it’s more than just waving at neighbors or chatting in the grocery line. There’s a deep-rooted sense of community here. Whether you're moving into a new development in Broken Arrow or setting up shop in a smaller town, people show up for each other. Need a casserole? Someone’s got you. Lost power in a storm? The whole block checks in. It’s not just lip service—it’s how we live.

2. Yes, It’s Affordable—But That Doesn’t Mean You’re Settling

Oklahoma is one of the most affordable states to live in, and that includes housing, groceries, utilities—you name it. But that doesn’t mean you’re sacrificing quality. You can actually build a new home here without having to give up things like a backyard, an office, or a proper laundry room (bless your little hearts). Our builders offer thoughtful floor plans, updated finishes, and enough space to grow.

For families, that means real bedrooms for the kids. For retirees, it means single-level living with room for guests. For remote workers, it means home offices with doors that close.

3. Tornadoes? Sure. But We Also Get the Most Beautiful Skies You’ve Ever Seen

Yes, we get storms. But if you ask any local, we’ll also tell you we get the best sunsets, the brightest stars, and a sky that just stretches on forever. We get all four seasons, too—crisp falls, mild winters, colorful springs, and hot summers that make lake days feel extra sweet. And when the weather turns wild? We’re weather-aware, we’re prepared, and we check on each other. It’s part of the rhythm of life here, and honestly—it brings people closer.

4. Nature Is Just Around the Corner

People are always surprised by how green and scenic Oklahoma really is. We’ve got rolling hills, wooded trails, sparkling lakes, and wide-open spaces that still feel untouched. If you're moving from a big city, you’ll quickly appreciate how easy it is to get outdoors here. Whether it's a morning walk on a neighborhood trail or a weekend hike at Turkey Mountain, nature is never far away.

A lot of new home communities are built with this in mind—featuring ponds, greenbelts, and playgrounds where kids can actually be kids.

5. It’s a Great Place to Raise a Family—Or Just Slow Down a Bit

From the outside, people think Oklahoma is behind the times. But let me tell you: when it comes to raising kids, building a home, or simply enjoying your life, we’re doing a lot of things right.

We’ve got strong school districts, tight-knit neighborhoods, and community events that actually bring people together. You don’t have to spend hours in traffic or hundreds on kids’ activities. There’s room to breathe, room to grow, and—most importantly—room to be present.

6. You’ll Find Your People Here

I think what surprises people the most about moving to Oklahoma is how quickly it starts to feel like home. People are grounded here. They care about their families, their neighbors, their work. And whether you're new to the state or returning after years away, it doesn't take long to feel like you belong. 

Oklahoma truley is the best kept secret. If you're on the fence about relocating, I get it. Moving is a big step. But don’t let old stereotypes keep you from discovering something great. Oklahoma is more than people expect—and better than most imagine.

It’s not just affordable—it’s full of opportunity. It’s not just friendly—it’s deeply connected. And it’s not just a flyover state—it’s a place where real life happens.

Take a look at what’s available. Walk through a model home. Chat with a local. And see for yourself why more people are putting down roots right here in Oklahoma.